(First appeared in WRAL TechWire.)
Hereâs a thought to start: âPerfectionism is a self-destructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of blame, judgment, and shame.â
Thatâs from author BrenĂ© Brown, and, sure, we could just drop the mic here⊠because, well, BrenĂ©. But, I still have more than 400 words left in this column, so letâs get after it.
Itâs time to talk about The Perfectionistâthe last archetype to unpack in our series on impostor syndrome. The perfectionist believes that the only way to be bulletproof is to never make a mistake. Thatâs right: never make a mistake. They labor to ensure everything they do and say is flawless.
Hereâs how the perfectionist experiences impostor syndrome: youâre the fifth hire for a high growth, early stage startup.
New information is coming at you so fast youâre drinking from the proverbial fire hose.
Youâre furiously taking ...
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